I’d like to share a pretty profound excerpt of this article that I feel is the catalyst of why a certain belief in the manosphere is negative.
"You are hating women because you have the wrong expectations for them. Don't hate someone for something they CANNOT be. Women are, by nature, manipulative, attention-seeking, inconsistent, emotional, and hypergamous. Accept this truth. Once you do, you can game women for what they are ... not what you want them to be."
This is absolutely true I’d say 95% when negative associations are made with this culture. Some people can go overboard with their approach, and it is because they lack the inability to fully understand our counterparts. The beauty of life is duality you’d have to be able to see things from various perspectives if you want to truly understand something. There's no way a man can truly understand a woman if he’s too caught up in himself and so the same vice versa for a woman. Additionally, this also poses a huge issue because many men are attempting to make “Getting Women” their main focus. This should never be the case. You handle your business as a man and/or woman and the right person will find you. It will show time and time again that chasing will end up getting you nowhere.
Truly understanding women will help you decipher behavior then maybe you won’t be so hateful towards them. Because that in fact is not masculine, redpill, part of the manosphere, or anything like that. Women by nature operate differently than men, we cannot complain because of that… We should take the time to truly understand that so can have clarity on a ton of different issues many men struggle with when it comes to women.
Most men place a high value on “Sexual Availability” which should be the last thing on your mind. Focusing on yourself will make you more attractive and a great byproduct of that is that you’d become sought after, instead of the reversal. Yes, some people love you and like you for who you are but let's be honest to give yourself the best chance you need to have all the other attributes.
The current climate of society is a recipe for a rapid civilizational decline and displacement. The reason being is that more and more men think they can act like women and so the same vice versa. Doesn’t matter how much you mask it either, it will always be present, because it’s truly what’s in your mind. If as a man you think that doing something for a woman guarantees you something you’re clearly wrong. The sooner you understand that the better and maybe you’ll pivot into doing things for the women who do want to get intimate with you. That’s why you must understand “Game” or “Game Theory”. I’ll cover that in the next blog post.
By nature we all have our own characteristics, traits and desires. Men view women a certain way and women view men a certain way. I think that reevaluating our standards and needs from genders, we will all be able to understand each other at a much deeper level. In end, our relationships with all genders will be more smooth.
This is an interesting perspective. A 2005 analysis of 46 meta-analyses that were conducted during the last two decades of the 20th century underscores that men and women are basically alike in terms of personality, cognitive ability and leadership. Psychologist Janet Shibley Hyde, PhD, of the University of Wisconsin in Madison, discovered that males and females from childhood to adulthood are more alike than different on most psychological variables, resulting in what she calls a gender similarities hypothesis. Several studies like it show that in fact, there are very few fundamental differences between men and women and these differences 1) are not exclusive to male nor woman and 2) vary largely based on socialization rather than any inherent factor. …
This post makes an underdiscussed and very interesting point about the biological differences and emotional disparities that divide men and women. All too many times I've sat silently while my male friends have ranted about a woman in their life, expecting them to think and feel the same way that they do as men. But there are different social, emotional and biological experiences that can often cause tension between couples or any two people that identify with two separate genders.
Unrealistic expectations are the root of hatred against women, and if one does not try to understand the person across from them, they will never be able to show kindness to them. The way in which males and society depicts women to be, or what they would like women to be, is based on desires and impossible standards. Men must come to the realization that women function in their own ways and do not mirror them, furthermore women do not even mirror other women among themselves.
Overall i think you make a strong case. I do believe that there are many issues with the way the current male society interpret and accept women. This however is something i've never thought off. Women do tend to have a deeper emotional and physical level which if not accepted can create issues in relationships. Overall good blog post.